Monthly Archives: May 2010

Why Dating Agencies Don't Make Sense To Me

What’s up guys,

Thought I would pop in with this post I wrote while I was having some alone time in the airport while on transit in Bangkok after a PI in China. I am currently undergoing military re-service at Khatib Camp so time is pretty tight. You can expect a slew of updates after I am done on 6th June 2010.

It’s a fast-growing trend in our local Singaporean culture. Some (mostly marketing and advertising people) will say that it is no longer taboo to sign-up for a Dating Agency. While I believe this is a truth for some people, the general population here still feels that there is some stigma involved. Signing up for a dating agency is like saying that “you have given up”. Well, I really believe in the White Belt mentality, where I set aside my ego and adopt a humble approach to learning, being mentored or schooled in ways to success. That is what made me sign-up for training with Troy Dizon Dating in the first place. It’s fine to feel uncertain and to seek help but it is pretty stupid to look for the wrong type of help.

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Why Dating Agencies Don’t Make Sense To Me

What’s up guys,

Thought I would pop in with this post I wrote while I was having some alone time in the airport while on transit in Bangkok after a PI in China. I am currently undergoing military re-service at Khatib Camp so time is pretty tight. You can expect a slew of updates after I am done on 6th June 2010.

It’s a fast-growing trend in our local Singaporean culture. Some (mostly marketing and advertising people) will say that it is no longer taboo to sign-up for a Dating Agency. While I believe this is a truth for some people, the general population here still feels that there is some stigma involved. Signing up for a dating agency is like saying that “you have given up”. Well, I really believe in the White Belt mentality, where I set aside my ego and adopt a humble approach to learning, being mentored or schooled in ways to success. That is what made me sign-up for training with Troy Dizon Dating in the first place. It’s fine to feel uncertain and to seek help but it is pretty stupid to look for the wrong type of help.

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THIS JUST IN : An Alumni's letter to Asian Playboy

Sup again!

Just MINUTES after my update, I have this letter to further re-enforce what TDD is all about. This letter was written by one of our latest PI students from last month, The Spartan. Enjoy!

Dear AsianPlayBoy (I still can’t see that name and not snicker),

Your little speech at the PUA summit must’ve been hugly inspiring to your blue balled diciples. After your first ‘boocamp’ (?), you hit the streets 4-7 nights a week to build your bullshit craft, after all that work, FINALLY got laid after 6 whole months.

By my calculations, that’s well over 400 cold approaches with NOTHING but maybe a phone number, maybe a forced or sympathetic kiss, and absolutely no sex.

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THIS JUST IN : An Alumni’s letter to Asian Playboy

Sup again!

Just MINUTES after my update, I have this letter to further re-enforce what TDD is all about. This letter was written by one of our latest PI students from last month, The Spartan. Enjoy!

Dear AsianPlayBoy (I still can’t see that name and not snicker),

Your little speech at the PUA summit must’ve been hugly inspiring to your blue balled diciples. After your first ‘boocamp’ (?), you hit the streets 4-7 nights a week to build your bullshit craft, after all that work, FINALLY got laid after 6 whole months.

By my calculations, that’s well over 400 cold approaches with NOTHING but maybe a phone number, maybe a forced or sympathetic kiss, and absolutely no sex.

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TDD Singapore City Tour in 5 DAYS!

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As I gobble down Siew Mais and Har Kaws left, right and center in Guangzhou, I am absolutely stoked to be writing this entry. The TDD Singapore City Tour is coming up in 5 days time and everyday as I hear the ideas from the committee, I can’t help but feel excitement. Game-changing stuff indeed, you have to be there to even begin to believe it.

Also, if you haven’t already been doing so, have you checked out Jordon and Edwin’s blogs? Personally, being a huge fan of my Alumni’s progress, I’ve gotta say that I am hooked on the amazing and entertaining stories they document on their blogs. They have also written some pretty awesome, enriching stuff about the lessons they have learned since taking the first steps into the TDD world, which gives a different perspective on the core TDD lessons. Both of them chart their day-to-day progress religiously so if you aren’t already a Fan, convert yourself by visiting the blogs of Jordon and Edwin!

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TDD Singapore presents : The TDD Singapore City Tour

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As I write this, I am exactly 4 hours away from my flight to Guangzhou, China. It’s been a hectic week for me. The past week saw me tear it up with my homies Laveen, Ken and Jordon on Ladies’ Night last week. Jordon wrote a comprehensive report on the events of that night so check it out here. I have been spending lots of time grooming the Alumni and some esteemed members of the TDD Crew here in Singapore for our upcoming free workshop on 22nd May 2010, called the TDD Singapore City Tour. I am immensely excited about this program, simply because we are going to conduct a workshop that is in my opinion, a Game-Changer in the dating industry. I won’t divulge the full details of the program, but it is an idea that Daniel and Val came up with and Troy and myself fell in love with immediately.

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Answers Inside!

Hey guys,

I had a fun and enjoyable session with Jordon, Daniel and Laveen yesterday at the LoveQ.tv interview. We were hosted at a swanky-location where we proceeded to spend about 2 hours recording our respective interviews. The boys had a fun interview which I cannot wait to hear. On my part, I gave a more professional opinion and dropped a few golden nuggets on being successful in dating, with a lot of special attention given to online game. Look out for the program which airs in August 2010!

Jordon, Daniel and Laveen at the LoveQ.tv Interview

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How to be Engaging to Women

What’s up guys,

Here is a question which was posted on The Singapore Lair recently. I found this to be a common question that is asked among guys inside and outside of the community and I have also seen a lot of advice out there that I do not agree with. I took a good amount of time to give my take on this matter an I thought I would share it with you readers on the site as well.

As always, enrich and enjoy!

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