The Art of Foreshadowing
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Champions of Choice 6 : The Art of Foreshadowing will be out very soon. To get a glimpse of what Foreshadowing really is, here is an article that I shared on a site just a few hours ago :
“Before you read on, I want the people who read this to UNDERSTAND what this is. That is the whole point. I hope nobody repeats to himself in their head and go “Oh, I must foreshadow, I must foreshadow.” Do not look at it as a technique to get you laid faster. Understand it and use it when appropriate. That is how people should really use techniques. I mean look at DHV-routines and stories… how mis-calibrated they usually are… I hope you get my point…
The art if foreshadowing itself is such a wide topic that it takes a lot more than a written article to explain. There is VERBAL foreshadowing and there is also NON-VERBAL foreshadowing. When it comes to conversation, there are only 4 things that I do. (not in order… interactions are not a science and are variable so there should not be order)
1) Beliefs and Values
2) Mutual Agreement/Common connect for RAPPORT
3) Insinuation
4) Foreshadowing
That’s it. That is all my conversation “Game”. There is nothing else that I talk about.
A lot of people (especially new PUAs) get caught up in a lot of unnecessary chit-chat. Over at my end, we call these guys Chit-Chat Masters. There is actually a lot of potential for a interaction/relationship to escalate so much faster if you just cut the bullshit. But that’s another story altogether.
Let’s talk about my favourite and probably the most important part of conversation : Foreshadowing.
What the Foreshadow accomplishes is that it gets you and the girl talking about doing things together. For a man and a woman to do mutual activities together, there has to be :
- Attraction
- Comfort
- Escalation
Essentially, when you Foreshadow and she plays along or agrees to your ideas/statements, the idea of 1) being attracted to one another 2) being comfortable with each other 3) escalation between you and the woman, are all accepted.
Like all things, PROGRESSION is key to a smooth acceptance of things. The same goes for escalation (physical) and foreshadowing.
Here’s some sample conversation :
Guy : Let’s chillax next Tuesday.
Girl : I can’t, I have to feed my Pokemon.
There was no build-up and progression. Now look at this conversation :
*talking about favourite places to chill*
Guy : it seems that we like the same drinks, we should chillax sometime.
Girl : haha yea why not…
Guy : maybe it’d be cheaper too since we can share one drink.
Girl : haha yea that’s good news…
Guy : exactly, for me, because I’m gonna drink 90% of it while paying only 50% of the cost.
Girl : haha idiot! I’m gonna use two straws.
Guy and Girl : lol… *high point*
*after the fun talk*
Guy : what are you up to next Tuesday ?
Girl : I have to feed my Pokemon…
Guy : Damn, I was hoping to chillax and grab some green tea frappes at Starbucks…
Girl : omg ya! Let’s go on Wednesday instead.
Guy gets a date set.
The key to having a suggestion accepted is to have a good build-up to it. That is also how movie trailers work. They show you good parts of the show to build up your anticipation. Whether the movie actually sucks or not, if the build-up was unbearable, you will still watch it.
To make your Foreshadow effective, you should :
- make it personal (between you and her)
- have a romantic backdrop or sexual undertone
- be realistic ( deal with REAL time and feasible events like grabbing coffee this week)
- personally be enthusiastic about it. X=X, what you feel, she will feel.
And don’t forget the #1 most important thing to do – PRACTICE!
If you are have questions, feel free to ask.”
Once again, this is just a glimpse of conversational magic that we teach at TDD. If you :
- NEVER want to have conversation problems ever again ( I AM SERIOUS )
- NEVER want to wonder what to say next in conversation
- WANT to be one of the best conversationalists a girl will EVER meet
- WANT to be able to make the best use of your verbal game
- WANT to ensure smooth escalation with NO RESISTANCE.
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Alright, later folks!
Live and Love,
Xavier
xav@dating-sg.com
http://alife2love.com
