Vibe Is KING

Hey guys,

It’s been a while! I am managing an epic travel schedule as part of a travel competition I am participating in with my friends.

Check it out here: The RACE.

Here’s an entry by one of our esteemed Alumni. He talks about Vibe and how it plays an important role in both romantic and social situations.

Vibe Is King

In the aftermath of a very interesting and weird night, I sit here thinking about my past successes and failures.

Tonight’s story will be left to the Lim Kopi sessions (Alumni-Only Coffee Sessions), but I’ll just say this: Vibe is indeed the King.

We have all the techniques and strategies. Things like high points, connections, inception, sexualization, certainty… they are the tools that are really meant to help you gain the success you’ve always craved for, so that you realize that the lady likes you for who you are – your best self.


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As much as I dislike saying this, experience in-field has shown me constantly that women want a finished product, not a potential. Potential is to keep you around for now, in the hopes that you become the finished product.

And when you truly realize that deep inside of you, you are free to do whatever you want. And thus, vibe becomes the overriding factor, because your mindset is that of surety and success.

Ask yourself this – how will I behave when I know for sure that success is gonna happen?

Likewise, think about how all the naturals out there get the ladies. Do they rely on strategies like sexualizing the conversation, recognizing a high point etc etc? No. They rely on vibe, and their gut. Because that is all they know. What we see as basic foundations are really just tools to help us build the real foundation – you.

You are the only factor that matters. When You are the factor that matters, the lady will help you out with your/her logistics. That is not to say you ignore it, because success is all about planning. Like they say, when you fail to plan, you plan to fail. That much still holds true. But she’ll make life easier for you, that’s for sure.

Moving forward, L asked me tonight to break down vibe for him. The phrase “vibe is king” sounds all fine and dandy, but to the blind, stumbling around in darkness thinking you are in the right direction does absolutely nothing.

I wish I could truly break it down to a T, but vibe (in my opinion) is the hardest thing you can ever break down into words. Truly, the ONLY way to fully understand this is to work with Xavier on a Gold Class like I did.

Because it is a feeling, not something you can generate with the mind (but you can effect with it). It’s just like how the ladies talk about guys who are charismatic, and when they attempt to explain it, it’s just general terms like “he helps me hold the door”.

But here’s my attempt, and please, feel free to discredit me if you feel like I am wrong.

First up, vibe is a result of mindset. Which is why I mentioned earlier that you can effect it with the mind. When you are focused on just one thing – having fun – you will find that everything else fades into the background.

I came in tonight with the mindset that all I wanna do, is help Larry get his girl. In my mind, the one thought that came up constantly was to make him look good. How do I do that? By being fun. So, I naturally focused on that. I didn’t focus on whether I’d be judged by others. I didn’t focus on how other girls will see me with my boys. I had a task, and everything else doesn’t matter.

When you start having fun, everything else opens up.

You don’t focus on impressing anyone. In fact, you focus on amusing yourself. I said the most random things tonight, things that don’t even make sense, but they work. And that’s all that matters at the end of the day – what works, not what makes sense.

Some of the shit I spouted:

“Actually I thought this was a library, and I brought a book along to read. But holy shit, it’s a club!”

“What bottle of vodka? That was water! Ya know what makes you drunk? Alcohol. And since I finished that bottle, and I am not drunk, therefore it’s water.”

Did I drop Inception? Create connections? Hit a high point and led or left? I sure did… but those are the effective by-products of my vibe. People just got drawn in, and created opportunities for me to do all of that. I didn’t have to go searching for it.

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Next, a good vibe is not achievable if you are concerned with the reactions of others. The problem with a lot of us is that, we are still playing that reactive game (guilty as charged right here). When you react to someone’s reaction of your game, you are effectively focusing on them. This means you put your happiness in their hands.

But if you chose to be certain of yourself, and allow yourself to see that, all that matters is how you react to the situation, you will begin to realize that others will be convinced by your certainty. In a PUA’s language, they buy into your frame.

The repercussions of this are aplenty. I don’t wanna go into the science of it, simply because I can’t explain everything myself, but you’ll realise that it’s a stable ground that you have constructed for yourself to stand on, and others will want to stand with you, instead of against you.

This little tweak in your attitude is so fundamental to your success rate, and yet it’s so underrated because you almost never hear anyone talking about it.

With that being said, I hope I am able to give an insight into how you can improve your vibe. I am seeing more and more for myself how it might just be about the only thing you’ll ever need to fix if you wish to see instant success.

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J

Maverick Movement Dominates (yet again), Maverick Man 180

Greetings MAVERICKS!

Wow, it’s been a long time indeed. Thank you all for consistently visiting the blog and showing your love via e-mail and on Facebook. Having traveled to a grand total of 5 different cities in the past 40 days (all expenses paid, thanks to my new business venture), I have truly missed writing to everyone.

The Maverick Movement team undertook a project on 22nd February 2012 to put our excellence to the test. It’s easy to say how good you are but we decided to put our reputation on the line and prove to the World how awesome we really are. We all undertook a business project to put our skills as exceptional individuals to the test. And excel we did.

In keeping with our trademark of setting the GOLD STANDARD for excellence everywhere we go, we set an ASIAN RECORD in the business and officially became Asia’s fastest growing team.

I would like to congratulate Team MAVERICK on the amazing accomplishment. We really proved ourselves with this achievement. It truly is awesome to be traveling and making money at the same time… and helping others do the same! If you want to travel and make money at the same time, feel free to drop me an e-mail at xavier@maverick-movement.com and let me show you how ;-)

Maverick Man Celebrates Yet Again

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27th April 2012 will be yet another Alumni Member’s Congress, where we celebrate a successful first-quarter of success stories and achievements.

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Quality Life = Quality Women : A Maverick Man Success Story

In this post, I would like to celebrate the success of one of our members. It’s been about a year since he took a program with us and his story reminds me very much of my own.

It would be near-impossible to imagine how he was like 1 year back.

When I first met GR, he was, in every sense of the word, a young boy. He dressed, looked, behaved and spoke like a typical Singaporean boy. He would think himself to be lean but my honest feedback to him was that he was scrawny and the kinda guy I would make fun of. He was also awkward socially and truth be told, his overly-positive and “yes-man” attitude made me want to strangle him. He was about as sharp as a mattress and had the backbone of a jellyfish.

Today, he is leading a sparkling social life in one of the top universities in Singapore and boasting his own successful business on the side at the age of 21, GR is a bonafide winner in his own right, a young Man well on the way to a successful life. He recently shared about his life right now with the Alumni on our forum and I requested to share this post with everyone in public. He was happy to oblige.

Without further ado, here’s GR to share his success story with you!

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Gentlemen,

It’s been a while since I updated my journal but this is me making up for it. I’m currently looking at the Members’ forum, and with all the endless reading of success stories, it suddenly hit me: WOW! Holy ****! It’s been almost 4 months since I last updated my journal.

SO without further ado, let me get started…

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Maverick Mind: Smurfs and Stormtroopers

I spent the last few days doing a lot of self-reflection. In the process of understanding myself further, I wrote about my life, read about what people have been saying about my life and also enlisted the help of my friends from all walks of life to put my life in different perspectives.

I realize that I live a very different life from others. It works both ways. And sometimes, it can be a real challenge to try and fully comprehend one another.

On one hand, I have people close to me (my family members for example) who embrace a pragmatic life. They value finding joy and satisfaction in stability, to be able to fully appreciate the things that they worked hard to own, above the desire for variety and novelty. I accept, admire and respect that to the fullest degree, with nothing but pure joy for them being able to find “meaning” in their lives. I’m going to add a dash of fun to this entry by referring to them as Smurfs.

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You Talk, We Listen + Free seminars and e-Books

Hey people!

First of all, thank you all so much for the comments and feedback from my latest post, Waking Up In 5 Different Places In 5 Days. I never knew so many of you guys out there were so interested in my personal thoughts about romance and seduction. Don’t let my stories and statistics fool you, truth be told, I am quite the hopeless romantic. In fact, I attribute a huge part of my success with Women to the fact that I am well-versed in the art of Romance and Seduction. Couple with the skills we teach at Masterclass and GOLD CLASS, I doubt there can be a better way to learn to be good with Women.

My earlier post, Great Sunday Nights Are The Best Defence Against Monday Blues, was a third person view of a date I went on last night early in the morning. I think it gives people a really good idea of how I personally envision romance and seduction to be like. It should be light-hearted, uninhibited fun and intimacy.

I actually do explain more about this at the free upcoming “Win The Dating Game” Workshop coming up this Sunday, 26th February 2012.

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Great Sunday Nights Are The Best Defence Against Monday Blues

“It’s so boring here in Singapore.” she said with a sigh. A typical sentiment shared by most people here in this fine city. Not one I agree with.

“We have you, me and the night.” I reminded her.

“What do you mean?”

“That’s all I need to turn a boring night around.”

She paused as I held the line. Where people feel awkward, I basked in the silence, enjoying the thought of us dancing in the moonlight after a jug of Sangria.

“Okay. What are you thinking of doing?”

“I propose that tonight, we remember what it feels like to live.”

“Haha… okay, let me get ready.”

“See you in 30…”

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Life Blog: Waking Up In 5 Different Places in 5 Days

Sawadeekarp and Good Morning everyone!

So its the 5th day in a row that I’ve found myself waking up in a different place.

It’s 7am in the morning here in the city of Bangkok and I have been so inspired by the recent spate of events in my life that I wanted to write  5 short stories inspired by my travels in the past 5 days.

The Morning In Valencia, Spain

Today was “CLOSING” day.

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