LIVE blogTV.sg Appearance
What up guys,
I hope everyone had a good weekend. I had a good time working with Daniel recording some audio and brainstorming details of our upcoming movie project together. I also spent some time thinking about what I’d talk about during my blogTV.sg appearance tomorrow evening. I checked out the site today (http://blogtv.sg) and saw some videos that build-up to my program, “Single In Singapore” and I must say, I am pretty damn excited about it tomorrow!
Troy Dizon has written a very detailed write-up about what you can expect tomorrow and I strongly recommend that you head on down to the main site to read it right now. After you are done with that, you will want to check out the tons of free content that the 24/7 Attractive Man head honcho has been dishing out. Lots of quality material and stories to be found on the main site.
Alright people, I am looking forward to interacting with you guys on the program tomorrow. You can also add me up on Twitter, my handle is @omgitsxav so feel free to send your questions, comments or plain love. Have a powerful week ahead!
Live and Love,
Xavier
xav@247attractiveman.com
http://alife2love.com
Skype : xavierrrr
All that peeping has paid off…
What up y’all!
So it’s been a long time since I last updated. To all my dear readers, thank you for your continued support during this absence. I have been on a short hiatus, taking some time off the date coaching pedal and placing my focus on my own business, which saw some of the busiest seasons in recent times. I am glad to report that I am slowly making my way back to this wacky world of date coaching once again and so far, it’s been fun… I definitely missed everything! The latest Masterclass 3 weeks ago was a mind-blowing experience and if you checked out my Twitter, we had some crazy times during that class, like how our Singaporean superstar Alumni, Kinkz, did a raunchy day-game DOUBLE insta-date which saw him making out with a chick after dinner, which took place right after another earlier insta-date. More on that later
Before I jump into my list of updates, for those of you who want to read my Sunday Times article and had trouble reading through the scans, I found a better source for it. The article has been uploaded into text format online and you can read it by clicking here. Alright, now for updates!
To an awesome weekend and FREE Asia Teleclass
What up people!
Thank God It’s Friday! I feel that Friday couldn’t have come at a better time because I am in desperate need of a break. I played a handful of games of soccer, pushed the envelope at the gym, got my ass kicked at Muay Thai, worked out the details for my part as a main character in a short-film where I play a suited-assassin, made preparations for upcoming 24/7 Attractive Man gigs and gearing up for a great weekend after a hectic week. I hope you guys are as excited as I am about the weekends!
I had the chance to get online and chillax for a good 2 hours or so last night. It was great catching up with so many people, setting up appointments to meet people from my past, talking to people about how they are doing and keeping interested people in the loop about my life. Among some of the memorable stories from last night was a story about a friend who started learning about picking-up Women who was slated to get married. I felt great joy for him. It’s nice to know that there are many of us out there who have moved forward. It’s sad to see people who have been stuck in Pick-Up for 2-3 years with no sign of having achieved anything or knowing where they want to end up. I also had the chance to chat up my clients and find out how they were doing. It felt great hearing about their stories and how far they have come. It really made me feel like I did something good with my life. It was very invigorating for my soul.
So for those of you from overseas who wanted to take a look, here are some scans of my feature on The Sunday Times :
Article Talk and Thank You
What up people,
I’m sure most, if not all, of you readers are on the 24/7 Attractive Man mailing list. (Click here and sign up immediately if you are not on it) In one of the latest e-mails, Troy explained thoroughly the chances that we have been going through. What was known as Troy Dizon Dating (TDD) is now evolving to becoming 24/7 Attractive Man.
You can skip right to my latest article on Battling Shyness, or you could wait till you scroll down further.
I have just finished my last training call with Troy hours ago and am proud to release my first 24/7 Attractive Man article. For our long-time readers, you will notice that the manner in which the recent articles were presented have become a lot easier comprehend. I have gone through training with Troy which spanned over a period of 3 days just to further refine my article writing skills to increase the quality of my content. This explains why releasing this article really means a lot to me.
Groundbreaking Concept : Preconceived Seduction
You heard it here first, folks.
24/7 Attractive Man head honcho Troy Dizon has just written an amazing article about the ground-breaking concept of Preconceived Seduction and I found it to be one of the most brilliant articles in recent times. I would like to share this post with you on my blog.
We all know the deal:
The method (call it 24/7 AM or TDD) works…
We have real results from clients…
And the concepts are simple and universal…
Now it’s my task to organize things for you so that you can apply this stuff now and get results for yourself.
For years we’ve kind of kept the root of our system “in house,” but with recent chains of events unfolding its time we gave it a name befitting of it’s purpose:
Preconceived Seduction
Developing a 24/7 Attractive Lifestyle
Hey people!
So I have finally recovered from my very serious World Cup fever. I saw my favorite team, Spain, overcome all the odds to Win the big prize and I am extremely happy about that. A big “high-five” to everyone out there who’s a Spain supporter. Also, if anyone asks, the most hated thing in the World right now is THE VUVUZELA.
I have just finished my interview with The Straits’ Times hours ago. For those who do not know, the Straits’ Times is the biggest publication in the whole of Singapore. To me, this is as big an accomplishment as it gets and I am thankful to you readers, fans, clients, friends, mentors, crew members who have in one way or another, helped me get from my humble beginnings to where I am today. Be sure to look out for the feature story on Dating Coaches in this Sunday’s edition of Lifestyle.
Alright, it’s Foundational Lesson time.
2 Weeks After Private Instruction
What up people!
Yes, it is back to regular-programing here at A Life To Love. It’s been a long time since I updated so obviously, there must’ve been lots I was busy with. In the time I was gone, I was actually celebrating my Birthweek Festival. Yup, I take a whole week, Monday-Sunday, to celebrate the fact that I am here, I am alive and I am KICKING. What I do is I take a whole week off work and just basically do the stuff that I’ve always said I would love to do one day. I tried my hand at Wake-boarding (MAD FUN), cooked myself some gourmet dishes, met up with a truckload of people, touched-base with my family over quiet meals and outings and literally PARTIED LIKE A ROCKSTAR.
If you were at Movida on the night of June 18th 2010, you would’ve seen the most jaw-dropping spectacle of a party, with my closest friends and entire TDD SINGAPORE CREW out in full-force, tearing it up. Hell, I APOLOGIZE to anyone who tried to game that night because it was just downright UNFAIR how unbeatable my Entourage was. Edwin described the TDD crew’s perspective of the night pretty well :
Got my ass out of the house to be part of the surprise that will stun Mr Hide. No surprise that only Val could plan such for Xav, the week long operation.
Anyway a total of 13 guys showed up to celebrate Xav’s birthday at St James. Pity he was kinda sloshed when he met us. Was really looking forward to a certain expression from him. Said his speech, abeit a pretty long one, then we headed into Movida. Boy it was crazy inside. You don’t wanna mess with a drunk birthday boy. He was literally a one man army. Tore up the place in every possible sense. Fast forward 30 minutes later, he was far away in la la land. Doing the merlion at regular intervals.
Let’s put it this way, I don’t remember most of it but my last memory was that even when I was unconscious from drinking (lol), I had Women getting into heated exchanges about who would take me home. As for the rest of the sober people… I’ll let them tell y’all their stories haha.
Sexual Escalation Breakdown by Captain Daniel
What’s up guys,
2 weeks on from the TDD Singapore City Tour and I find myself done with military reservist, ready for yet another PI in my sunny hometown of Singapore tomorrow. The 3 weeks in camp saw me in the middle of both the “WTF” night as well as our Saturday Night Shakedown (Part I of the report by Jordon). To all you readers, please take note that I have moved all my Twitter updates to another account so add me up on my handle, @omgitsxav right now for a glimpse into my thoughts and life.
Daniel has also created a Twitter account so be sure to add him up, his handle is @miltonmonster so show him some love on Twitter. Speaking of Daniel, he has just written an awesome post on his Sexual Escalation style. By the end of this post, you will realize why we call him Daniel “monster” MILFton(see the amount of sexual innuendo in that?!) He has an amazing style of Sexual Escalation which has left many a by-stander in awe. I will not forget the time Daniel and Troy tag-teamed a pair of gorgeous ladies during my Masterclass. They were hot enough for the bouncer at Rebel actually let all 6 of us into the club that Saturday night just because the girls asked. As a Falcon Candidate and a TDD Apprentice Instructor, expect some insightful posts and great stuff coming from him.
Without further ado, here is his post :
My conclusion
Hey guys,
I was having a hilarious Skype conversation with some of my Alumni about some of the crap people are putting out there. This is more of a rant than anything because we were recalling some of our early days and wishing we didn’t fucking waste our time on the bullshit some people are throwing out. After going through some sites and youtube videos…
I am going to make a statement here :
Most people and dating gurus know JACKSHIT about attraction. It pisses me off just writing and thinking about this. It is so obvious because they all talk about attraction BUT ALWAYS end up teaching, preaching techniques which actually make you end up CHASING a Woman endlessly. They read up extensively and garner a few(well, compared to me and my guys) in-field practices, often stopping when they hit success just 2-3 times. Then all of a sudden they think they are ready to teach.
In fact, the rare occasions I’ve seen them in the field, just the sight of me sends them into hiding (what irony since MY nickname is “hide”? haha). Shit, it’s the same in Texas and Manila, when Troy and Nash are around.
One example of the crap they teach would be DHVs (DEMONSTRATION of High Value). What the fuck? IF you are really high value, need you bend over backwards just to demonstrate it and yet SEEM like you are not? It cannot be more pathetic than that…
Here is something for you people to think about :
If you really are attractive, do you think you really need to sarge so much, prove yourself so much, do so many routines or go through so much shit just to get a girl?
The 24/7 Attractive Man doesn’t worry about Attraction. To him it’s a GIVEN. That kind of confidence, by X=X, is what wins her over. Maintaining that or escalating that Attraction comes through time after you convey your real attractive qualities in a congruent fashion. The REAL focus should be on having a Macro Plan and leading her through it.
Thank the powers above that you and I are TDD!
Live and Love,
Xavier
xav@troydizondating.com
Skype : xavierrrr
http://alife2love.com/
Why Lifestyle Trumps Game
What up y’all!
Man, it’s exciting to be back here, watching this window and writing to you guys again. The past three weeks have been a relaxing… nay, OVER-relaxing 3 weeks for me. No doubt, it was an enjoyable time for me as I immersed myself into plenty of sports and physical training, all the while surrounded by like-minded people who also knew how to have a good time. Unfortunately, those 3 weeks left my mind pretty lethargic so I am glad to be back writing articles, mentoring our Alumni and getting my Falcon Swag on.
I did manage to hit the clubs twice during my military reservist training though. The first night, I hit it with Jordon and the night/morning ended with a “WTF” video which I am pretty sure I won’t be sharing with you guys unless you’re an Alumni haha. However, on the second night on Saturday, we managed to get some more fresh in-field footage as we build our extensive in-field footage library. I also created what I will term as “The Pitbull Walk“, which blitz a group of 5 gorgeous Women and made it one hell of a night for us. Stay tuned for a full breakdown video coming up in the next few weeks. I can’t wait to hit the clubs with my boys again this Wednesday as we prepare for a smashing PI this coming weekend!
On to my article for today :


